The people you adore can also drive you crazy. Sometimes you struggle to get your needs met, or to meet those of a loved one. Resolving conflict and connecting with someone vastly different from you can be a real challenge. The solutions to these common struggles lie in understanding personality. This course unlocks the secrets.

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Why Mended Light?

If there is anyone in the world who can understand that the people you adore can also drive you crazy, it’s us! Sometimes you struggle to get your needs met, or to meet those of a loved one. Resolving conflict and connecting with someone vastly different from you can be a real challenge. We built this course from what we’ve learned in our own family (and other relationships) about how to understand one another's personalities, to find personalized ways to connect, and specific tools to resolve contention. This course is designed to unlock the secrets you need to thrive in all relationships.

Why Learn About Personalities?

Have you ever experienced the disheartening sensation of your needs not being fully grasped by a loved one? It's as if you're both speaking different languages, leading to a profound sense of misunderstanding and loneliness even in the presence of others. Despite your sincere efforts to bridge the gap, there persists a disconnect when attempting to comprehend the feelings and experiences of those you hold dear.

Navigating the intricacies of family, work, and romantic relationships exposes you to a mosaic of unique personalities. The challenge lies in the inherent diversity among individuals, making it difficult to fully grasp alternative perspectives while perceiving the world through the lens of your own particular personality. Despite the potential frustrations arising from these differences, it's crucial to recognize their importance.

Each personality type has evolved to address distinct challenges, forming the foundation for human cooperation in societies. As we collectively tackle a myriad of problems, the richness of diverse personalities contributes to the collaborative tapestry of social life. This transformative journey invites you to delve into a profound understanding of yourself and others, fostering enhanced cooperation and the ability to truly support and encourage those you care about. Instead of resigning to the notion of irreconcilable differences, this course empowers you to bridge gaps and foster deeper connections.

Our Story

At Mended Light, our journey began much like yours—filled with the highs and lows of navigating relationships. We realized early on that while love and admiration bound us, understanding each other's unique personalities was the key to overcoming our differences.

Growing up in a household where communication often felt like deciphering a foreign language, we experienced firsthand the frustration of feeling misunderstood by those closest to us. However, it was through these challenges that we discovered the power of empathy, patience, and a willingness to learn from each other.

Our family's experiences became the foundation upon which we built Mended Light. We wanted to create a space where others could benefit from the lessons we've learned—where understanding and connection prevail over discord and misunderstanding.

Understanding Miscommunication

In relationships, miscommunication can often lead to feelings of frustration and isolation. Understanding the root causes of miscommunication is essential for fostering healthier connections with others.

Identifying Communication Barriers

Communication barriers can stem from various sources, including differences in communication styles, cultural backgrounds, or emotional triggers. Recognizing these barriers is the first step toward addressing them effectively.

Exploring Emotional Intelligence

Emotional intelligence plays a crucial role in effective communication. Explore how self-awareness and empathy can help individuals navigate difficult conversations and understand others' perspectives more deeply.

Practicing Active Listening

Active listening involves more than just hearing words—it requires full engagement with the speaker and a genuine effort to understand their thoughts and feelings. Strategies for improving active listening skills, such as paraphrasing and asking clarifying questions, can significantly enhance communication and reduce misunderstandings.

Embracing Differences

Two Contrasting Personalities Inspire Insightful Dialogue

Recognizing Unique Perspectives

Each individual brings a unique perspective shaped by their personality, experiences, and upbringing. By acknowledging and valuing these distinct viewpoints, we open ourselves to a world of new insights and understanding.

Cultivating Empathy and Understanding

Empathy is the cornerstone of meaningful connection. In this subsection, we delve into the importance of stepping into the shoes of others, seeking to understand their thoughts, feelings, and motivations. Through empathy, we bridge the gap between different personalities and forge deeper connections.

Leveraging Strengths and Weaknesses

Every personality type comes with its own set of strengths and weaknesses. Rather than focusing solely on shortcomings, we encourage leveraging each other's strengths to complement and support one another. By embracing the diversity of strengths within our relationships, we create a harmonious balance that fosters growth and collaboration.

Fostering Growth Through Collaboration

Collaboration is the key to unlocking the full potential of our relationships. By combining our unique perspectives and talents, we tackle challenges more effectively and achieve greater heights together. In this subsection, we explore strategies for fostering a collaborative spirit that nurtures growth and mutual respect within our relationships.

Embracing Differences

Two Contrasting Personalities Inspire Insightful Dialogue

Recognizing Unique Perspectives

Each individual brings a unique perspective shaped by their personality, experiences, and upbringing. By acknowledging and valuing these distinct viewpoints, we open ourselves to a world of new insights and understanding.

Cultivating Empathy and Understanding

Empathy is the cornerstone of meaningful connection. In this subsection, we delve into the importance of stepping into the shoes of others, seeking to understand their thoughts, feelings, and motivations. Through empathy, we bridge the gap between different personalities and forge deeper connections.

Leveraging Strengths and Weaknesses

Every personality type comes with its own set of strengths and weaknesses. Rather than focusing solely on shortcomings, we encourage leveraging each other's strengths to complement and support one another. By embracing the diversity of strengths within our relationships, we create a harmonious balance that fosters growth and collaboration.

Fostering Growth Through Collaboration

Collaboration is the key to unlocking the full potential of our relationships. By combining our unique perspectives and talents, we tackle challenges more effectively and achieve greater heights together. In this subsection, we explore strategies for fostering a collaborative spirit that nurtures growth and mutual respect within our relationships.

You Are Needed, You Belong

You have unique gifts.

You deserve to be seen, understood, accepted and loved.

In this course you will learn how to apply your strengths for the good of our relationships and your life. You will also learn how to connect on a deeper level with those who are radically different from you.

Your Transformative Journey

Embark on a journey of self-discovery and understanding others on a deeper level.

Lecture # 1

Understanding Personality Types

No one type is superior to another. All are gifted and capable. All can be intelligent,

accomplished, determined, compassionate, and fun-loving. The key difference between the personality types is what motivates them.

Lecture # 2

Dreamers

Dreamers connect to the world through other people. Their primary needs are to connect socially, to have fun, and to innovate with new ideas.

Lecture # 3

Healers

Healers connect to the world emotionally. Their primary need is to meet the needs of others. Their sense of self-worth comes from this.

Lecture # 4

Closers

Closers connect to the world through tasks and results. Their primary need is to accomplish their goals, to be reliable, and to be depended on.

Lecture # 5

Thinkers

Thinkers connect to the world intellectually. Their primary needs are to be respected, to do things the very best that they can, and to understand how things work.

Lecture # 6

Connecting and Resolving Conflict

When resolving conflict with another person, being in tune with their personality type can help you to understand what they value and, by extension, why they act, think, and speak

the way that they do.

Lecture # 7

Self Worth

While it’s good to be well liked, to care about our loved ones, to accomplish goals

and be well informed and respected, those things do not define you or determine

your worth.

Lecture # 8

Inside Out

Oftentimes the things we love about a person are the same things that drive us crazy. It’s

all personality. Understanding what other people value helps you to connect, to understand, and to resolve

conflict.

Your Transformative Journey

Embark on a journey of self-discovery and understanding others on a deeper level.

Lecture # 1

Understanding Personality Types

No one type is superior to another. All are gifted and capable. All can be intelligent,

accomplished, determined, compassionate, and fun-loving. The key difference between the personality types is what motivates them.

Lecture # 2

Dreamers

Dreamers connect to the world through other people. Their primary needs are to connect socially, to have fun, and to innovate with new ideas.

Lecture # 3

Healers

Healers connect to the world emotionally. Their primary need is to meet the needs of others. Their sense of self-worth comes from this.

Lecture # 4

Closers

Closers connect to the world through tasks and results. Their primary need is to accomplish their goals, to be reliable, and to be depended on.

Lecture # 5

Thinkers

Thinkers connect to the world intellectually. Their primary needs are to be respected, to do things the very best that they can, and to understand how things work.

Lecture # 6

Connecting and Resolving Conflict

When resolving conflict with another person, being in tune with their personality type can help you to understand what they value and, by extension, why they act, think, and speak

the way that they do.

Lecture # 7

Self Worth

While it’s good to be well liked, to care about our loved ones, to accomplish goals

and be well informed and respected, those things do not define you or determine

your worth.

Lecture # 8

Inside Out

Oftentimes the things we love about a person are the same things that drive us crazy. It’s

all personality. Understanding what other people value helps you to connect, to understand, and to resolve

conflict.

Personalized Approach

In order to foster meaningful connections and resolve conflicts effectively, it's essential to tailor your approach to the unique personalities involved. Here are three actionable steps to implement a personalized approach in your relationships:

Identify Personality Traits:
Learn to recognize different personality traits in yourself and others, such as introversion/extroversion, sensitivity, or assertiveness.

Adapt Communication Styles:
Discover how to adapt your communication style to better resonate with the preferences of the person you're interacting with, whether it's through verbal, nonverbal, or written communication.

Flexibility and Empathy:
Cultivate flexibility and empathy in your approach, acknowledging that different situations may require adjustments in communication tactics to accommodate varying personalities and circumstances.

Personalized Approach

In order to foster meaningful connections and resolve conflicts effectively, it's essential to tailor your approach to the unique personalities involved. Here are seven actionable steps to implement a personalized approach in your relationships:

Identify Personality Traits:
Learn to recognize different personality traits in yourself and others, such as introversion/extroversion, sensitivity, or assertiveness.

Adapt Communication Styles:
Discover how to adapt your communication style to better resonate with the preferences of the person you're interacting with, whether it's through verbal, nonverbal, or written communication.

Flexibility and Empathy:
Cultivate flexibility and empathy in your approach, acknowledging that different situations may require adjustments in communication tactics to accommodate varying personalities and circumstances.

Enhanced Cooperation

Learn how gaining a deeper understanding of yourself and others can lead to enhanced cooperation in relationships, fostering support, and encouragement.

BONUS # 1

Cultivating Empathy

Empathy is the cornerstone of cooperation. By putting yourself in someone else's shoes, you gain insight into their perspective and emotions. Learn how to cultivate empathy through active listening, perspective-taking, and genuine curiosity about others' experiences.

BONUS # 2

Communicating Effectively

Effective communication is essential for cooperation. Explore strategies for clear and respectful communication, including using "I" statements, active listening techniques, and nonverbal cues. Discover how adjusting your communication style to match the preferences of others can facilitate understanding and collaboration.

BONUS # 3

Setting Boundaries

Healthy boundaries are vital for cooperation in relationships. Learn how to establish and communicate your boundaries assertively, while also respecting the boundaries of others. Understand that setting boundaries is not about building walls but rather creating a framework for mutual respect and understanding.

BONUS # 4

Collaborative Problem-Solving

Collaborative problem-solving strengthens cooperation by encouraging teamwork and shared decision-making. Explore techniques for brainstorming solutions, compromising, and finding win-win outcomes. Embrace the idea that conflicts can be opportunities for growth and deeper connection when approached with a collaborative mindset.

Bridge Gaps, Build Connections

Explore how to bridge the gaps in communication and build stronger connections with those around you. By understanding the diverse personalities in your life, you can cultivate meaningful relationships and foster harmony in all aspects of your life.

Recognizing Differences

Understanding that everyone has unique personality traits and communication styles is the first step toward bridging gaps in relationships. In this subsection, we'll delve into how to recognize and appreciate these differences without judgment or criticism. By acknowledging and respecting individual differences, you can lay the foundation for healthier interactions and deeper connections.

Cultivating Empathy

Empathy plays a crucial role in bridging gaps and building connections. In this subsection, we'll explore techniques for developing empathy toward others, including active listening, perspective-taking, and putting yourself in someone else's shoes. By empathizing with others' experiences and emotions, you can forge stronger bonds and navigate conflicts with compassion and understanding.

Communicating Effectively

Effective communication is essential for bridging gaps and fostering connections in relationships. In this subsection, we'll discuss strategies for improving communication skills, such as using "I" statements, practicing assertiveness, and seeking clarification when misunderstandings arise. By communicating openly and honestly with others, you can address conflicts constructively and strengthen your relationships.

What others are saying about

Mended Light

“An incredible resource for personal growth”

I discovered Mended Light through Cinema Therapy on YouTube, drawn to their insightful approach using movies in a fun environment. I quickly signed up for their membership and found a wealth of videos, podcasts, and Q&A sessions addressing common life challenges. Jonathan and Alicia genuinely care about others, offering compassionate one-on-one counseling with skilled professionals. It's an incredible resource for personal growth and support, providing valuable tools and insights. Highly recommended for anyone seeking guidance and connection.

Shannon

“Made all the difference”

I love that Mended Light serves as a way to work on mental health at my own pace, in a way I can better afford to heal when I cannot afford weekly therapy sessions. I feel heard without the pressure to actually speak, and I feel welcomed when I do interact with everyone. If you’re on the fence about therapy but enjoy the free content, I definitely recommend giving the membership site a try.

Ashley

"More than just business owners"

You can tell Jonathan and Alicia have a passion for what they do and making a difference. They are truly inspiring, and completing their courses with a warm cup of tea is my favorite! Very well versed and knowledgeable while being down to earth. They are professionals that make you feel like you’re not alone on this journey. I especially like that their membership site gives you an opportunity for group therapy. I love that the Mended Light membership gives me a sense community which is so important for anyone on a growth or healing journey.

Mindy

“ An investment in my family ”

As a family we learned and improved our relationships through the courses and I have continued on working on myself. The cost of therapy is an investment in my children and family. I enjoy the flexibility of video sessions. I have recommended Mended Light to other friends and would do it again.

Valinda

“ The best therapist I’ve ever had ”

Very personable and knows what’s best for me. And they don’t do it in a way that makes me feel guilty or embarrassed. They understand my situation and help me to believe in and have faith in myself. The best therapist I’ve ever had, hands-down!

Kaylynn

“So grateful!!!”

Mended Light’s programs include life-changing curriculum and skills taught. All the therapists are caring, highly educated, and experienced. Including spiritual overtone that I needed to be integrated throughout courses and therapy. So grateful!!!

Kami

What others are saying about Mended Light

“An incredible resource for personal growth”

I discovered Mended Light through Cinema Therapy on YouTube, drawn to their insightful approach using movies in a fun environment. I quickly signed up for their membership and found a wealth of videos, podcasts, and Q&A sessions addressing common life challenges. Jonathan and Alicia genuinely care about others, offering compassionate one-on-one counseling with skilled professionals. It's an incredible resource for personal growth and support, providing valuable tools and insights. Highly recommended for anyone seeking guidance and connection.

Shannon

“Made all the difference”

I love that Mended Light serves as a way to work on mental health at my own pace, in a way I can better afford to heal when I cannot afford weekly therapy sessions. I feel heard without the pressure to actually speak, and I feel welcomed when I do interact with everyone. If you’re on the fence about therapy but enjoy the free content, I definitely recommend giving the membership site a try.

Ashley

"More than just business owners"

You can tell Jonathan and Alicia have a passion for what they do and making a difference. They are truly inspiring, and completing their courses with a warm cup of tea is my favorite! Very well versed and knowledgeable while being down to earth. They are professionals that make you feel like you’re not alone on this journey. I especially like that their membership site gives you an opportunity for group therapy. I love that the Mended Light membership gives me a sense community which is so important for anyone on a growth or healing journey.

Mindy

“ An investment in my family ”

As a family we learned and improved our relationships through the courses and I have continued on working on myself. The cost of therapy is an investment in my children and family. I enjoy the flexibility of video sessions. I have recommended Mended Light to other friends and would do it again.

Valinda

“ The best therapist I’ve ever had ”

Very personable and knows what’s best for me. And they don’t do it in a way that makes me feel guilty or embarrassed. They understand my situation and help me to believe in and have faith in myself. The best therapist I’ve ever had, hands-down!

Kaylynn

“So grateful!!!”

Mended Light’s programs include life-changing curriculum and skills taught. All the therapists are caring, highly educated, and experienced. Including spiritual overtone that I needed to be integrated throughout courses and therapy. So grateful!!!

Kami

Tools for Resolving Conflict

Learn effective communication techniques to navigate disagreements gracefully. Discover strategies for fostering understanding and finding common ground. Equip yourself with practical tools to promote harmony and reconciliation in your relationships.

Tools for Resolving Conflict

Learn effective communication techniques to navigate disagreements gracefully. Discover strategies for fostering understanding and finding common ground. Equip yourself with practical tools to promote harmony and reconciliation in your relationships.

FAQ Section

Answers to Common Questions About Our Course

How long does the course take to complete?

Our course is designed to be flexible to accommodate various schedules. On average, it takes about 4-6 weeks to complete, but you can progress at your own pace. Each module is structured to provide valuable insights and practical exercises without overwhelming you with too much information at once.

Is this course suitable for individuals in all types of relationships?

Yes, absolutely! Whether you're navigating relationships with family members, colleagues, romantic partners, or friends, the principles and techniques taught in our course are applicable to all types of relationships. Our goal is to help you foster understanding and connection in any interpersonal dynamic.

How will this course help me communicate better with others?

Our course focuses on understanding different personality types and communication styles, allowing you to tailor your approach to effectively connect with others. By gaining insight into your own personality and the personalities of those around you, you'll learn practical strategies for improving communication, resolving conflicts, and deepening your relationships.

What if I have specific challenges in my relationships?

Our course is designed to address a wide range of challenges commonly faced in relationships. Whether you're struggling with conflicts, feeling misunderstood, or simply seeking to strengthen your connections, the course provides personalized guidance and practical tools to help you overcome obstacles and thrive in your relationships.

Can I interact with other participants or instructors during the course?

Yes, absolutely! We encourage interaction and engagement throughout the course. You'll have the opportunity to connect with other participants through discussion forums and group activities. Additionally, our instructors are available to provide support, answer questions, and offer guidance whenever needed. Your journey toward deeper connections starts with joining our supportive community.